I used to have quotes covering every inch of my bedroom wall.
Two stood out and stuck with me:
“If it doesn’t set your soul on fire, it’s not worth the burn.”
“Nothing changes if nothing changes”
The second one hit me so deeply, I made it the tagline for my brand.
Why?
Because things won’t change on their own unless you take action.
I’ve been where you are.
I know what it feels like to be disconnected from your own desire — unsure about your sex life, sensing there’s more out there, but having no idea where to start.
Maybe you’ve felt that too, like you’re just going through the motions, stuck in the same routine, holding back parts of yourself that are aching to be explored.
I created this space because I believe sex should feel expansive, expressive, and empowering. And you deserve to feel fully in your body, in your power, and in your pleasure.
As a sex coach, I help you rewrite the stories you’ve been told about sex, relationships, and yourself. Together, we break through shame, silence, and self-doubt — and open up new pathways to confidence, connection, and pleasure.
This is your sign to unlock the sex life you have always wanted…
It’s time to take the next step…
…because nothing changes,
if nothing changes!
Want to work with a sex coach who gets it?
My coaching business is built on a foundation of respect, empowerment, and inclusivity.
You’ll have my full support when it comes to making decisions about your body – I’m sex-positive, pro-choice, and pro-abortion!
Being sex-positive also means that I’m kink and BDSM-friendly (I will never kink-shame you), and I’m proudly pro-sex work, supporting individuals in the industry.
As a strong LGBTQIA+ ally, my coaching provides a safe space, and I want you to know that I see you, I’m here to advocate for your rights and dignity, and I will always respect your sexuality and pronouns.
During our sessions together, communication, consent, and respect will be at the forefront so that you can feel as comfortable as possible when working with me.
With a zero-tolerance policy for racism or sexism, when you’re with me, I want you to feel valued and respected during our time together, no matter your background or identity.
If you don’t agree with my values, I am not the coach for you.
But if you’ve been searching for someone with the above values, let’s chat!
Okay, let’s cut to the chase about what you really want to know: what makes me qualified to be a sex coach?
I am an Accredited Sex and Relationship Educator
Clinical Sexologist & Certified Sex Coach
I have worked with over 60+ sex-positive businesses & individuals through my sex-positive virtual assistant agency.
7+ years of experience in the sexual wellness and women’s rights sector, including work, volunteering, and research, reflecting a commitment to advocacy and empowerment.
I have a BA (Hons) in Sociology (specialised in topics such as gender, sexuality, sex, pornography, sex work, feminism, and sexism.)
Sextech Entrepreneurship Program Graduate
Completed a Psychology of Fetish & Kink Introduction 7-Week course
Completed a 2-day intensive Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) course
I hold a Level 3 GDPR qualification, demonstrating strong knowledge of data protection and privacy standards.
I have a Level 7 (PGCE) Postgraduate Certificate of Education in Primary Teaching and Learning, showcasing advanced expertise in education.
I have 8 years of experience in childcare and education, showcasing a solid foundation in supporting children’s development and learning.
I have 5+ years of administrative and social media management experience, highlighting proficiency in organisational tasks and online engagement strategies.
What’s more, I have worked with over 55+ sex-positive businesses & individuals as part of my other business, Admin By Amari Agency, where, alongside my sex-positive associates, I provide virtual assistant services.
A sex coach provides a safe, judgement-free space to discuss topics like:
Enhancing intimacy and connection in relationships
Overcoming sexual difficulties (e.g., low desire, performance anxiety)
Exploring desires, fantasies, and boundaries
Understanding anatomy and pleasure techniques
Healing from past negative sexual experiences
Building confidence in one’s sexual identity and expression
They focus on communication, mindset, and sexual well-being rather than medical treatment or therapy.
Yes! I work 100% remotely, meaning wherever you are in the world, I am here to support you.
I have different rates for different types of sessions and services. Take a look at the link below for the prices of all my different sessions. https://www.sexcoachingbyamari.com/prices
You would need to be 21+. If you look younger than 21, I will require ID as proof of age; this information will not be stored anywhere.
Yes, please email me your student ID as evidence, and you will get 20% off.
If you are looking for a coach who is sex-positive, pro-choice, kink-friendly, real, supportive, and makes talking about sex feel fun, we will be a good fit. I create a space where you can be yourself without pressure or judgement. If reading this feels reassuring or sparks something inside you, trust that feeling; it is usually a good place to start. You can book a free 20-minute discovery call with me to find out if we are a match.
https://cal.com/coachingbyamari/discovery-call-with-amari
Sex coaching is action-orientated, focusing on education, strategies, and practical solutions to improve your sex life. It helps clients set goals and take steps toward sexual fulfilment.
Sex therapy, on the other hand, deals with deeper emotional or psychological issues like trauma, sexual dysfunction, or mental health challenges that impact sexuality. Therapists are typically licensed mental health professionals, while sex coaches may have specialised training but do not diagnose or treat mental disorders.
In summary:
Sex coaches focus on education, skills, and confidence-building, working with clients to improve their sex lives through practical techniques.
Sex therapists address deeper psychological issues, past trauma, and medical concerns related to sexuality.
1:1 sex coaching
1:1 online coaching via email and WhatsApp
Sex Toy Consultation
Sex Education Session
90-minute Power Session
Absolutely, we can work together! I embrace and celebrate diversity within the LGBTQIA+, kink, BDSM, sex worker, and poly communities. My goal is to create an inclusive and supportive space for all individuals, regardless of their background or identity. Whether you’re seeking guidance, resources, or a collaborative partnership, I am here to provide tailored support that respects and uplifts your unique experiences.
Absolutely. Sex coaching isn’t just about having more sex; it’s about feeling connected, informed, and confident in your choices. If you identify as asexual or on the spectrum, we can work together to explore what intimacy, connection, and identity mean to you.
Common topics include:
Enhancing sexual confidence and pleasure
Overcoming shame or anxiety about sex
Learning new techniques and communication skills
Exploring desires, fantasies, or alternative lifestyles (BDSM, polyamory, tantra, etc.)
Navigating changes in libido and sexual compatibility
If you have a penis or are a man;
Low or no sexual desire
Early ejaculation
Erectile dysfunction
Delayed ejaculation
Sexual inhibition
Body confidence issues
Social/dating skills deficit
Desire for enhanced pleasure (EP)
Navigating kinks and fetishes
If you have a vulva or are a woman;
Low or no sexual desire
Preorgasmic primary
Preorgasmic secondary
Dyspareunia (painful sex)
Vaginismus
Sexual inhibitions
Body confidence issues
Social/dating skills deficit
Desire for enhanced pleasure (EP)
Navigating kinks and fetishes
Yes! Your privacy is a top priority. Everything discussed in our session is kept completely confidential, so you can feel safe and supported.
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If you are unable to afford 1:1 coaching, I offer 1:1 online coaching by email and WhatsApp, which is cheaper
You can also book a one-off Sex Toy Consultation or Sex Education Session if you are unable to commit to 1:1 coaching
If you’re curious about improving your sex life, deepening intimacy, or gaining confidence, a consultation with a coach can help determine if it’s the right fit for you.
Not at all! Many people seek sex coaching to enhance their already good sex life, explore new experiences, or gain more confidence in relationships.
Only as much as you feel comfortable with. This is a judgement-free space where you can openly talk about concerns, desires, and goals at your own pace.
Absolutely. My approach is inclusive, and we can explore pleasure in ways that honour your body, your needs, and your capacity. Everyone deserves access to pleasure and connection.
Definitely. This is a kink-aware, shame-free space. We can explore your interests, safety practices (like consent and communication), and ways to begin experimenting that feel aligned with your values and boundaries.
No. Coaching sessions are conversation-based and focus on education, techniques, and exercises you can practise on your own or with a partner. There is no physical contact between the coach and the client.
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