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Hi, I’m Lucy.

I’m a sexologist and intimacy coach for women and vulva havers.

I’m passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they’ve always desired. I use a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for women and vulva havers to explore their full erotic potential.

My speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again.

I am a resident sex coach on UK contraception platform, The Lowdown, and I’m regularly quoted in the media for my expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including iNews, Cosmopolitan, Cosmopolitan, Mic, Men’s Health, GQ, Kinkly, The O Diaries, InsideHook, and Glamour.

My mission is to help you release shame and embrace pleasure and eros as your birthright.

I make talking about sex as easy as talking about what you’re cooking for dinner tonight, and exploring pleasure as natural as breathing. 

I want you to have the sex, love, and relationship that you deeply desire, and will give you the tools to make it happen. 

What I Can Help You With:

  • Sexual pleasure- how to have more of it and more of what you want 
  • Sexual confidence and communication 
  • Finding authentic sexual expression in a way that feels good for you and your partner/s 
  • Reclaiming and forming a new, positive, and joyful way to experience your sexuality coming from a Faith or conservative background 
  • Painful sex and vulvar pain 
  • Sex and chronic illness 
  • Sensational body image and body confidence 
  • Re-kindling the desire in your relationship 
  • Igniting your libido and discovering your eros 
  • Connecting both your spirit and your sexuality where you don’t have to sacrifice one for the other
  • Relating to your partner in healthier ways 
  • Empowered love and relationships

Who You Are

I’m going to get very specific about the kind of woman I work best with so you can decide if we’re a good fit.

  • You may be married, in a long-term relationship, single, or any other relationship status.
  • You’ve done the work in coaching, therapy, or personal development, but sex is still a big problem.
  • You may come from a Faith or conservative background or culture where sex was something, “sinful”, “dirty”, and not what, “Good Girls” did.
  • You struggle to feel good in your body and to “let go”.
  • You flinch when your partner touches you.
  • You feel empowered in every other area of your life, but feel clueless about sex and intimacy.
  • You struggle to ask for what you want in bed and turn into a mouse when you do.
  • You know that there should be more to love and sex, but have no idea where to start
  • You want complete integration: mind, body, soul, spirit, and sexuality
  • You believe that pleasure is important but struggle to embody it in your life and relationship/s.
  • You’re no stranger to, “the work”. You’re fully committed to showing up.
  • You’ve prayed, you’ve manifested, journalled, danced, done shamanic rituals, opened all your chakras, written forgiveness letters, maybe tried a yoni egg, and now you’re ready for the next step
 

More About Me

I’m a 30-something, empathic, quick minded, tea-loving, and expletive-laden sex geek.

I am British, born and raised in London- yet I’ve always felt more an international citizen. I am so grateful to have grown up in a multi-cultural and diverse place because it gave me a solid grounding for later on in life. 

Right now I live in Vienna, Austria, with my gorgeous husband- a German man. I adore travelling, networking, and speaking, especially if it’s for work. 

Why did I become a sex coach?

I intimately know what it is to rebuild your life, to heal on all levels, to go through Faith and spiritual deconstruction, to reclaim your sexuality, and to make friends with your body again.

A huge part of my own healing journey- both in Faith deconstruction and healing my body and shattered nervous system- was understanding my story and rediscovering and reclaiming my sexuality. 

From the first ever conscious sexuality retreat, to umpteen tantra workshops, to taking sexology training and being in classrooms, conference halls, talks, classes, tents, and retreats, I found what I love to do, and why you are here on this page.

Biography, Degrees and Certifications:

Trainings, certifications and ongoing professional development:

  • Certified Sex Coach™ through Sex Coach U
  • 2 Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring (SAR) trainings, led by Dr. Patti Britton and Dr. Agata Loewe, respectively.
  • 132 Continuing Education credits through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)
  • 3 Advanced Sexual Personal Explorational Xperience trainings through Sex Coach U and Dr. Patti Britton
  • European Sexual Diversity Training, by Pink Therapy
  • Level 2 Counselling Skills
  • CPD training in Erotic Transference, through the Centre for Psychosexual Health in London. 6 CPD hours with COSRT.
  • Professional member of Sex Coach U Professionals Association, and Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS).
  • Various conferences in sexual health and therapy via World Association for Sexual Health, Pink Therapy, and COSRT. 

How we work together

I work best with women and vulva havers over a period of 4-6 months in my signature program: Liberated. 

We will work together to create a foundation of safety and trust within your body, help you re-establish your boundaries, explore your full pleasure potential, learn how you can feel more turned on, and feel secure in yourself so you can untangle patterns of codependency in your relationship or marriage.

Learn more about Liberated program for women here.

If this is something that feels like a, “yes”, then fill out this application form.

From there you will be approved for a free discovery call with me to explore what working together could look like.

Additional Details

  • Primary Audiences Served:Women and Vulva Havers
  • Gender: Woman
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    Q If we work together, can I bring my partner to calls too?

    The work we would do would be only with you on your own on the call, but if you have a partner, then I offer a bonus call with them at the end of our work together so that they feel part of the process too.

    Q I don't live in Austria, can we still work together?

    Absolutely! All work I do is via Zoom, so we can work together wherever you are in the world.

    Q I'm currently in therapy, can I work with you at the same time?

    Yes! The work we do can compliment any therapy you are currently having or have had before.

    Q Do you offer payment plans?

    Yes I do. You can either pay for our work together in full, or in 6 monthly payments.

    Q Can I book a one-off session with you?

    If you're looking for something shorter, I offer one standalone session or a package of 2 sessions. After that, you will need to commit to working together for longer.

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